How Not To Care Too Much In a Relationship Caring too much and too little in a relationship are both dangerous habits as this will most times lead to the end of the relationship. It is advisable to find a balance between both worlds this will ensure a long healthy relationship. If you do all the work in a relationship you give little for your spouse to do, eventually, he will get used to it and wouldn’t want to do anything. This spells doom for that relationship and you will need to stop. A relationship is not meant to be stressful, it should be enjoyed by both parties. Since we live in an imperfect world it is difficult for there to be an equal effort from both ends, so, therefore, you should rely on your instinct to know when the relationship becomes stressful. When does it feel like I am doing too much? Some people believe that the person they are with is the only one for them so they will do anything within their power to continue with the relat...