How To Tell If A Guy Likes You Through Text chat

How To Tell If A Guy Likes You Through Text Chat

In this modern age with the internet in place there, dating has moved from the usual face to face conversation to using the internet, especially social media. Lots of couples started their relationship by initiating conversation through this medium. This is gradually becoming a norm now, but how easy is it to know if someone likes you through text. This is difficult mostly because words can be easily be misunderstood and misinterpreted, it could be that the person is even being sarcastic or just want to joke around.

Hmmm… this is not so easy to tell because of the most important factors like body language, voice tone, and gestures are not present so you rely on text and our guts feeling.

Regardless of these difficulties, it is still very much possible to know if a person is interested, you can use their past texts and also their previous behavior, if you have met him before, to look for a pattern. This will ensure that they are not just fooling around. The length of the text matters a lot. Most guys are not really into writing long text to express how they feel. In on a normal conversation, most times girls do all the talking. If a guy writes you long text definitely that is a sign that he likes you.

No matter how long a text is, the most important thing is the content. If he wants to be where you are all the time that means most of his thoughts and daydreams are about you, and he is thinking about you all the time and can't wait to see you and be with you.

Another way to know if a guy has an interest in you is if he always initiates the chat. This will usually happen in the morning, evening, and sometimes in the afternoon when he is able to catch a break from work. The morning text he will ask how your night went if you slept well if you also remember your dreams hoping that you dreamt about him…lol…then also if you have had breakfast. There will always be this genuine questions that feel right to be asked. In the evening, after the day's work, maybe towards the night, to ensure that you have eaten and refreshen up, he will ask how your day went and if they were any hitches that you encountered during the day and might also want to profer solutions to your problem if any and if possible. The afternoon chat is mostly to check up on you to make sure everything is going fine on your end. 

How prompt is he when you chat him up is an indication that he likes you. If replies immediately definitely he is into you. But, this depends on if he busy at the moment or not online at that moment, or most important he wouldn’t want to look desperate. Most women don’t like desperate men because it will look like they have something up their sleeves.

How curious is he to know more about you, your family, friends, pet, and colleagues? His level of curiosity will tell about his interest. He will want to talk with your family most especially your younger siblings and also your friends. He will also want to know your hobbies, passion, and career. Apart from asking you, he will also want you to know about his in a similar way. This will create an avenue for bonding and also intimacy.

Most guys love the idea of giving nicknames to their girlfriends and someone they have an interest in. Watch out for lovely nicknames!. Look out for consistency in the nicknames to know how often he uses it and on what occasion. Nicknames are good to help to draw closer to a person which in turn promotes intimacy.

I love this particular trait. If you want to know a healthy relationship, you will notice from couples who occasionally throw jokes at each other. This is a fun way to spice up the relationship. This is a good indication that he likes you. How often does he make fun of you in a good way (the way that doesn’t seem to pull you down)? The jokes may not necessarily be funny but you know he is making an effort. You can also throw your own jokes this will even make it better and interesting.

A compliment is a great way to create affection in a relationship. If he always compliments your looks, loves, and comments on your pictures on social media definitely he is into you. Apart from looks he can complement your effort or work on a particular job you did or something you did in the past or even your character as a person. Apart from the compliment, constructive criticism is also important because its someone who loves you that wants to correct you and pull you in the right path. But definitely it has done in the right way to avoid hurting the person. Compliments and constructive criticism are good signs of love interest.

Sharing funny and educative content like videos and audio from the internet is a way to show interest in a girl. If he finds good content that will be useful for you he will not hesitate to share that content.

At the end of all these gimmicks, text, flirtatious moves, and all the show of affection, he will sum up the courage to ask you straight that he likes you. This will take some time as he will want to be sure whether you also like him in similar ways. This will depend on how you have responded to his gestures in the past. This will build up his confidence as to whether he should go ahead to ask you.

At the end of the day, the most important way to know if a guy has an interest in you is to follow your instinct. Our body, the mind usually gives us some answers to our problem. But most times we don’t listen or even hear this answer because we are always talking and engaging ourselves in one form of activity or the other. Sometimes you may not even like the response we get, because we feel we deserve better. In as much as instinct is good sometimes, it fails us, maybe because it is mixed with our feelings. So my advice is that if you have some certain level of confidence from within you, given the factors stated above and you are certain to some extent you should take a leap or a risk to see what is on the other side.